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The way you feel

I remember when I was dating someone, and I sought out the advice of my closest friends. They would tell me I was too "nice", and that I should never give and do all of what I was doing in my relationship. But yet those same people would seek someone who could love them endlessly.

People will always tell you what you are doing wrong, rather than what you are doing right. They will make you feel stupid for being who you are and giving your all. What is so wrong with loving someone on a higher level. Loving someone the same way that you would want to be loved.

You know who you are, and what you can offer. There are people out there who will appreciate you, and even the weirdest parts of you.

Its weird, I have had a few guys get into my inbox on facebook asking for photographs of my foot. One even went so far as to offer me money for poses. I'm so confused on exactly how one would pose with their FEET. Like do I take a picture with the sock half off? Throw up gang signs with my toes? I'm not quite sure what they were looking for, but I realized not only were their weird people out there, there were people out there who legitimately appreciate every facet of you. Things you don't even consider.

Try and understand who you are, and what you have to offer. Would you date someone like you? If your answer is no, then you need to dig deeper and find out why. Realize what you deserve and go get it.

We all carry different frequencies and vibrations. The energy in our waves can attract things to us. Be mindful of the signals you are sending out and receiving and try to remain as positive as you can. Don't fixate on what others have, that you don't. Fixate on you, be you, and love you.

Change the way you feel.

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